Questions for the Individual Advancement Assessment

INDIAN WOMEN:
Husband, boyfriends and potential courtiers alike all want to know what makes us happy… So, let’s tell them!
As a part of my upcoming book “Tantra Yoga”, I am addressing the subject of sexual fulfillment among women in general, and the demographic of Indian women is an interesting case, indeed….
I personally am an American woman who is married to an Indian man. I have traveled to many countries around the world, and my husband has also ventured a few times out of India. We are both yogic practitioners and teachers of the ancient wisdom of tantra, including Vastu Shastra, Yantra, Mantra, Bhakti, and Karma Yoga.
There are many misconceptions about Tantra in the world: In the West people typically think it means some sort of kinky sex play. In India, it is common belief (or at least the legal label that it is givien) is that it implies the dark arts of witchcraft. Both of these are extremely contorted interpretations of of the truth after numerous extrapolations that lead into complete cloudiness.
**My personal understanding and experience with Tantra is that it is a systematic means for information acquisition, a science… and more specifically the science of moksha, or liberation.**
That being said, a very important aspect of growth (and liberation) are our personal relationships, and sex is one of our rudimentary means for expression and sources of fulfillment. Sadly, though, many people in our world today find that they are unhappy in their relationships and even more unhappy with their sex lives. I would like to help remedy this, and mass communication is one of the most effective ways to initiate change. Hence, the reason for the creation of this poll.
If you are interested in this study or you believe that you have answers that can contribue to this research, please answer the following questions as throughly as possible. Where you do not have an answer, please leave it blank.



Are you fulfilled in your sexual life?

Yes.

No.

Maybe.

I don’t know.
I choose not to answer.

How old are you?
Do you live in a rural, suburban, or urban area?
Are you married? If so, for how long? Was your marriage a love or arranged marriage?
Are you fulfilled in your sexual life?
What are your gripes (complaints)?
What would you like to see more of?
What would you like to see less of?
What message do you have (if any) for your men to please you in bed?
What message do you have (if any) for your men to arouse you more effectively?
What do you wish you had for your own life that could make you feel more sexy?
What message do you have (if any) for other Indian women regarding tips and secrets that you have learned about sexuality?
How do you feel about the arranged vs. love marriage scenario?
What age do you think is ideal for marriage?
Do you think that a woman should be allowed to do higher studies before marriage?

How do you feel about the typical house wife role?